Do What You Say You’re Going to Do: A Guide for Teens

Hey there! Let’s talk about something super important: keeping your word. Whether you realize it or not, doing what you say you’re going to do not only affects those around you but also how you see yourself. Keep reading to learn about living with integrity, and trust me, it’ll make things a whole lot easier in the long run!

1. Don’t Wait for the Perfect Moment

Life is full of surprises. If you keep waiting for the “perfect time” to do something, you’ll be waiting forever! There’s no magical moment when everything is just right. Take a leap and start, even when things get tough. You’ve got this!

2. Embrace the Challenge

Sometimes, you might think something is too challenging and want to give up. But if you care about it and said you would make an effort to do it, don’t quit just because it’s not easy. It’s totally normal to hit bumps along the way. If you find out it’s really not your thing, that’s okay too, but make that decision after you put in a few solid ounces of effort. After that, just move on and explore something new. But if it’s something you’re really passionate about, keep pushing through the struggle—the world needs your unique talents!

3. Own Your Commitments

When you say yes to something, it means you’re committing to it. This includes responsibilities at home. If you promised to help with chores or take care of a pet, it’s essential to follow through. If you have to cancel because you’ve made other plans, remember, you made those plans, not anyone else. It’s your responsibility to stick with your original commitment unless something truly unavoidable comes up. So, next time, think twice before saying “yes” to something new!

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4. Stop the Excuses and do what you say

We all encounter things that “come up,” but guess what? Most of the time, we can still make it happen if we really want to. If you find yourself saying, “I can’t because…” really think about it—are you just scared or not feeling up to it? Accepting that you dropped the ball is part of growing up. Own it, learn from it, and promise to do better next time.

5. Be Honest with Others

If you notice someone’s words don’t match their actions, it’s okay to bring it up, and if someone points it out to you, instead of getting upset, think of it as a chance to grow. True friends will appreciate you keeping it real with them, and you can help each other hold each other accountable.

The Bigger Picture: Integrity Matters

Being honest with yourself and others helps build a better life. When you start practicing integrity, you’ll find you feel more confident and secure in who you are. The more you commit to doing what you say, whether at home or elsewhere, the stronger your relationships will become, the more you’ll feel energized in your abilities, and the more trust you’ll have in yourself.

Living a life of integrity doesn’t mean you have to be perfect; it’s about making the effort. When you commit to keeping your word, you’ll notice that worries and excuses disappear. Plus, you’ll feel inner strength looking at yourself in the mirror, knowing you’re true to your word.

So, go on—make a commitment, stick to it, and watch how your life transforms. You have the power to create a life filled with honesty and passion!

Ashley Everhart.
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